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Love Yourself
From Nina Paley, illustrator and creator of the acclaimed animated feature Sita Sings the Blues.
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From Nina Paley, illustrator and creator of the acclaimed animated feature Sita Sings the Blues.
Too Many Gurus
Last year I decided it was time to shake things up big time. The career I had wasn’t blowing my skirt up any more, so I left it. I focused on my writing, put myself out there as a freelance consultant, and stepped into 2011 with faith that the Universe would support me as I completely changed my life. In an effort to keep that faith, I signed up for email newsletters and “liked” and “followed” every motivational blogger, spiritual sage and personal cheerleader I came across. Now, I cringe when I open Mail or log in to my Twitter feed because I’m deluged daily with voices from every angle telling me what I should or shouldn’t be doing or how I should or shouldn’t be feeling. The din from all that “wisdom” is making me dizzy, and not in a good way.
What’s a girl to do when she finds herself with too many gurus? Continue Reading
Love in a Bottle
After reading a recent NPR story about how even plastic without BPA is leaching estrogenic chemicals into whatever it comes in contact with, I was ready to give up plastic water bottles for good. I usually fill a bottle with tap water each night to keep beside my bed for late-night thirst quenching. Time to find a glass bottle – pronto! Well, ask and ye shall receive; yesterday I found a Love Bottle at my favorite local spa. It was exactly what I was looking for. And more, it turns out.

A Love Bottle is a reusable glass water bottle designed to replace the plastic bottles that we carry around and use every day. The idea for Love Bottle was born when a nutrition consultant in San Francisco wanted to find a way to improve the emotional and physical health of our country. As one of our most fundamental needs, water in a great looking, earth-friendly bottle supercharged with a little love seemed the perfect answer to helping many people in a simple and easy way. The next thing she knew she was starting a company. It’s mission is “to spread love, to improve health, to create a canvas for self expression, to help the environment, and to get clean water to people who need it.”
Why Love Bottle? The founder of the company, who calls herself “The Love Bottle Lady,” tells her story:
I’ve been drinking water out of a bottle with the word ”love” on it since 2005, after seeing a picture of a water crystal formed by the word love. Its beauty took my breath away. Intrigued by the photo, I investigated its origins and found that a wonderful man, Mr. Masaru Emoto, has been dedicating his life to the world of water and all it has to teach us. He has spent many years photographing how different words, pictures, songs, and prayers can affect water with its energy. To learn more about his work and to view beautiful water crystals, please visit www.hado.net
After realizing that water is affected by the energy surrounding it, I wanted to charge my water with the energy of love. I started drinking water from a homemade love bottle for a few months and though it was subtle, I could feel a difference when I drank from it. It made me feel good, and it made me want to drink more water. Now, I rarely drink out of anything but a love bottle and will actually search around the house so that I can drink out of my current favorite!
I also started noticing my friends asking for sips from my bottle and my husband “borrowing” my bottle when he came home from work. It made me think that perhaps more people wanted or needed a little love in their water.
I remember reading some time ago about Dr. Emoto and his work with water crystals. That someone would take his knowledge and find a practical way to use it to "put a little love in your water" was mightily engaging to me. The more I read about this company, the more I was, well, in love with it!
The creative in me was drawn to the idea of a water bottle that could be a medium not just for visual expression but for emotional expression as well. Love Bottles come in a variety of designs that are meant to be customized by writing and drawing on them, decorating them with stickers and bands, any way you can think of to make your bottle your own. "This is a place for you to express what you want more of in your life, or what makes you feel good." The idea is that if you feel good when you look at your bottle, you will feel good when you drink from it. Imagine the beautiful crystals that the water in your super-personal, super-charged Love Bottle would create!
And of course, Love Bottle solved my immediate problem of wanting to find a healthier way to drink water since I, like millions of others, do drink water on occasion from plastic bottles (my efforts to use a SIGG bottle at the gym notwithstanding). But I am just one person. Think of this for a moment:
29 billion plastic bottles are used each year in the US alone. 86% of these are not recycled, which means that all of that toxin-leaching plastic is ending up in our landfills and our oceans.
Plastic is petroleum, people. The 17 million barrels of oil used to make those bottles could fuel 100,000 cars for a full year.
And the 100 billion dollars spent globally on plastic water bottles each year could provide clean water for every human on the planet.
Statistically, each person in the US drinks one eight-ounce plastic water bottle a day. By replacing my statistical daily water bottle with a Love Bottle, I'm reducing my personal plastic water bottle consumption by 365 bottles per year (not to mention the money I'd be saving - have you bought a bottle of water at the movies lately?). If 1000 people use a love bottle, plastic bottle consumption would be reduced by 365,000 bottles a year. If 10,000 people use a love bottle we reduce our plastic bottle consumption by 3,650,000 bottles a year. I think you see where this is going. Not to mention all of the happy people we'd have walking around drinking love all day. It would be more than the environment we'd be saving. World peace anyone?
Love Bottle is dedicated not only to caring for the environment by reducing the impact of using plastic water bottles, but to supporting causes that preserve sources of clean water and ensure access to clean water for everyone. A portion of proceeds from each Love Bottle sale goes to Clean Water Action and to Global Water.
Love Bottles are available at all Exhale Spa locations and at many Whole Foods stores, in addition to numerous independent retailers across the country (a list of them is available on the Love Bottle website). You also can order Love Bottles directly from them on the site as well.
So, what will your Love Bottle say?
If I could save love in a bottle, the first thing that I’d like to do is to save every bit that I’ve ever felt and to give the whole bottle to you. (I think Jim Croce would be okay with that.)
Love
Since I have spent the past several days contemplating Valentine’s Day from every possible angle, when the day finally arrived I found myself on overload. What to say, what to say? Then I sat down at my computer this morning and there was just such an outpouring of love from every possible source that it suddenly became very simple. Whatever else you may or may not feel like doing today, there is only one thing you need to say: I love you.

Say it to anyone you love who makes a difference in your life. Say it without expecting to hear it in return. Say it to yourself.
From Facebook friends sharing heart-warming quotes to blog friends simply posting from their hearts, it seems that for all the cynicism and snark everyone likes to throw at Valentine’s Day there is, today, the most incredible sense of collective love and joy. In her book Dancing in the Streets, Barbara Ehrenreich chronicles the history of ecstatic ritual and cites the notion of “collective effervescence” as one response people have to shared celebration. There is definitely something effervescent about all of this online celebrating.
I thought of this again as I took a Zumba class this afternoon. Ehrenreich quotes Herman Melville, who said upon watching a group of Tahitian girls dancing: “… they softly sway themselves, gradually quickening the movement, until at length, for a few passionate moments with throbbing bosoms, and glowing cheeks, they abandon themselves to the spirit of the dance.” He could have been describing our class because, in addition to being a really great workout, Zumba truly resembles a kind of ecstatic dance. As corny as this may sound, dancing to music almost tribal in its beat, in that room full of joyful women dressed in red and pink and purple, I felt an overwhelming sense of ecstatic happiness and completely lost myself in the moment. My heart felt full; I couldn’t stop smiling.
That Zumba class was me loving me and loving life. I spent the rest of my day doing my best to send a little love to others. And the day isn’t over yet!
There are few special people in particular who contributed to today’s “collective effervescence” and who helped to make my day:
Erin at Elements of Style, who has a huge heart and fills life with beautiful things
Jessica at Daucus Carota, who is so creative and inspires us
Mastin at The Daily Love, who makes sure we all feel a little love every day
Thanks and love to you all in return!
It’s time for me to continue the celebration, so I leave you with a little “Love” from John Lennon.
Love is real, real is love,
Love is feeling, feeling love,
Love is wanting to be loved.
Love is touch, touch is love,
Love is reaching, reaching love,
Love is asking to be loved.
Love is you,
You and me,
Love is knowing,
We can be.
Love is free, free is love,
Love is living, living love,
Love is needing to be loved.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Wearing Your Heart Wherever You Want
We all know why there is so much heart-shaped jewelry around on Valentine’s Day. Not everyone has the dough for diamonds. But who’s to say that only puppy-eyed college boys and haggard husbands destined for Hallmark prescribed dates are the ones who should be interested in bling that beats? Or that we have to limit the wearing of it to Valentine’s Day even?
The laws of attraction state that you should surround yourself with images of that which you hope to bring into your life. If love is what you’re looking for, why not wear a pretty heart necklace? What better way to remind the object of your affection just how much you love him than to give him a ring with a heart on it – sparkling for all to see on the outside or discreetly engraved inside? Either way, you both know what it represents.
What I’m getting at is that there are plenty of reasons to appreciate the appeal of wearing your hearts on your ears, fingers, wrists or any other body parts you wish to adorn on any day you feel like it for any reason you want. Love is the only component necessary to make wearing hearts perfectly okay. And everyone loves and is loved by someone.
So, whether you or someone else is doing the gifting, there is plenty of great jewelry out there to let you wear your heart wherever you want.
Here are a few of my current heart-shaped favorites. And if a boy showed up with one of these, I wouldn’t say no!

Alex Woo Little Big Vegas Heart. I hate Vegas but I love hearts.

Elsa Peretti Open Heart Hoop Earrings from Tiffany. These would whisper sweet nothings in my ears all day long.

Cathy Waterman Heart Rings from Barneys. Love.

Sarah Nehama Heart-shaped Fossil Coral Pendant. Boston native Sarah makes amazing heart-shaped pendants strung on beautiful silk or velvet ribbon. Perfect and lovely.
The Boy I Want for Valentine’s Day
The first time I ever saw this wine in my favorite neighborhood wine shop, it was described to me as love in a bottle. I’d say it’s pretty damn close. I certainly loved it. And what better name for a bottle of love than The Boy?

The vintners notes about this wine say:
This Boy is a wild one: ripe black currant and blackberry, cigarbox and dried game meats. This wine is all about intensity—especially in terms of aroma. Expect room-filling aromatics: spicy sanguine, earthy, and all the red fruits…raspberry, strawberry, and cherries.
What girl can resist a wild and intense boy?
And about that label, which I adore:
“The Boy” was the first wine Charles Smith made that was not Syrah and as a result, he put the K” on the back label. Of course, this left a simple white label, reminiscent of the Beatles White Album. However, one thing lead to another and it all left Charles thinking of yet another musical artist, French chanteur Serge Gainsbourg and his song “The Boy.” The lyrics go “I am the boy who can enjoy invisibility” – a sentiment much enjoyed by Charles. Thus K “The Boy” label came to be.
Created by Charles Smith, also known for his popular Velvet Devil Merlot and Kung Fu Girl Riesling, K Vintners is in Walla Walla, Washington and turns out rockin’ reds with intense and amazing flavors. His Royal City Syrah received 99 points from Robert Parker and was named #2 in the Top 100 Wines of 2009 by Wine Enthusiast magazine.
But I’m nothing if not loyal. Whether or not there happens to be another present at the time, this is The Boy that I’ll be having for Valentine’s Day.



My name is Angela Eloise and I am a freelance writer. That sounds as if I am copping to an addiction. I am. In addition to writing this blog, I also write a column about social media and I am at work on a series of essays that I hope to see in print some day. Cloud of Chaos was born from my desire to dance with the absurdity of life, to create a space where I could write and share all of the gorgeous, fun, snarky deliciousness I find spinning around me every day. What does a spinning cloud of chaos have to do with writing? Everything, as it turns out.














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