Archive for the ‘Exposition’ Category

Owning Up to My Bride Gene

 
Carrie Bradshaw as bride
 

As Valentine’s Day looms and we’re bombarded from every possible media source with references to flowers and romantic dinners and diamond rings, for all the snarky derision we might exhibit on Facebook single women everywhere are wishing that some of that was happening to us. And with a few rare exceptions, whether or not they’ll admit it, most single women hope that some day they’ll get the ultimate Valentine – a marriage proposal. I’ll admit it; I do. Yes, I would like to be a woman in a wedding dress. Without any unintended Diane Arbus subtext.

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Posted on 02/09/11
 

Be Different

 
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Being yourself is controversial. Do it anyway!

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Posted on 12/06/10
 

Cutting It

 
New Do
 

In a recent post I mentioned that I’ve been toying with the idea of short hair. After growing my hair out for a long time, I finally had long hair admired by all. Guys prefer long hair, it’s sexy, who doesn’t want to be sexy? Except that it got in my way all the time and all I ever did was put it up anyway. I had an impulse to go short a few months or so ago but chickened out at the last minute. The itch to shake things up and stir some new energy didn’t go away though, and finally I decided, damn it, I’m just a short hair person. Who cares what anyone else thinks or prefers?

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Posted on 09/09/10
 

Living Large

 
 

Reduction. As women we tend to concentrate on it, obsess over it. Reducing weight, reducing carbs, reducing exposure to BPA. Yes, it feels good to fit into our skinny jeans, but at what point does all of this attention paid to reduction begin to have a detrimental effect?

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Posted on 03/15/10
 

Making Art

 
 

Some time ago, marketing guru Seth Godin posted on his blog an article about making art. He said:

My definition of art contains three elements:

Art is made by a human being.
Art is created to have an impact, to change someone else.
Art is a gift. You can sell the souvenir, the canvas, the recording… but the idea itself is free, and the generosity is a critical part of making art.

This reminded me of something.

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Posted on 02/26/10
 

Nine of Pentacles: Feminist Icon

 
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When you’ve been studying and reading the tarot for a while, certain cards begin to resonate in a more personal way and for you, as a reader, forever after have deeper, more powerfully nuanced meanings. It’s something akin to what Rachel Pollack refers to as “the Gates,” certain minor arcana cards that open to hidden experiences in everyday things. For her, these cards “open a path from the ordinary world to the inner level of archetypal experiences” and they take on a “myth-like Strangeness which no allegorical interpretation can completely penetrate.” For Pollack, the Gates contain layers of meaning that reveal greater significance upon further study and meditative contemplation. I believe that it is possible for all of us to develop our own Gate-like cards when the synchronicity between an experience in our lives and the appearance of a card within the context of a particular reading or spread suddenly clicks.

For me, one of those cards is the Nine of Pentacles.

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Posted on 01/25/10